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Book Review: Endless Love

Why I picked it: I saw the trailer for the movie and wasn't able to judge thriller or love story.

If you know me at all my next comment will not surprise you... I have no knowledge of the 1981 movie, starring Brooke Shields. To my defense, I was fourteen, spending hours and hours playing the violin, piano, and I was in Sweden.

It's the summer I discovered The Beatles!  A day I will never forget, I was visiting family a few hours from Vastervik and excited at the opportunity to listen to music in English... Strawberry Fields my first song.

I digress...

Synopsis: Endless Love tells the story of David Axelrod and his overwhelming love for Jade Butterfield.

David's and Jade's lives are consumed with each other; their rapport, their desire, their sexuality take them further than they understand. And when Jade's father suddenly banishes David from the house, he fantasizes the forgiveness his rescue of the family will bring and he sets a "perfectly safe" fire to their house. What unfolds is a nightmare, a dark world in which David's love is a crime and a disease, a world of anonymous phone calls, crazy letters, and new fears — and the inevitable and punishing pursuit of the one thing that remains most real to him: his endless love for Jade and her family.

Quick Take: The writing is stunning and keeps the reader vested.  While reading this book, I kept wondering how creepy it must have been, as a new release, in the seventies.

The first sentence hooks you: "When I was seventeen and in full obedience of my heart's most urgent commands, I stepped far from pathway of normal life and in a moment's time ruined everything I loved---I loved so deeply, and when the love was interrupted, when the incorporeal body of love shrank back in terror and my own body was locked away, it was hard for others to believe a life so new could suffer so irrevocably."

Read the reviews on goodreads and you will find people have a love/hate relationship with this novel.  For me, it was an uncomfortable read, creepy, obsession.  Quite the opposite to Forever (Judy Blume) which I read in 1981.

I struggle reviewing this book, while I'm happy I read it my skin crawls when thinking about the characters.

Check out these comments/reviews from goodreads:
- Scott Spencer blew me away. Depicts first love, er,.. obsession, perfectly...
- Made me feel like my skin was on backwards.
- I have always loved this book. A nice primer on love and sex. It's a great portrait of obsession. 

Here's one that best represents my view: a collection of awkward, characters, none sane enough to function in this world. All slightly askew and strange. David was basically a crazy stalker, so lost and attached to this family that hated him. A family he repeatedly destroyed "by accident". Obsessed with a girl and a love that was completely twisted and in the past. He is so lost and the way he views the world and processes what's happening to him, it's just so strange. I can't say I would recommend it...

Yet... somehow I find myself giving this book 4 stars, while saying 'thank goodness it's fiction'!

Rating: 4 stars
Source: Personal Copy
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Podcast: let's talk books

Hello friends,

What a fun post today!

I have known Erin (from the Manic Mommies) for years and am always threatening to visit, but life is busy and we haven't found a way to make this happen... yet. I have several friends near Rochester and should plan a weekend meet up this summer.

So, how did this happen? A few weeks ago while listening to their podcast, Erin mentioned needing a guest while Kristin off to run in the Disney half marathon (go Kristin). I reached out, and they took me up on the offer.

Podcast: click here to listen, or here to listen/download as an mp3

I should have thought to ask Erin for a few favorites (fiction, memoir, historical, classic), how her book club is doing, and if she rereads books.  Instead we talked about how to say my name (a common question), life, books, allowance, food issues, and dogs.

Books mentioned:
Brain on Fire (Cahalan)
Cold Antler Farm (Woginrich)
Life after Life (Atkinsen)
Lot's of Candles, plenty of Cake (Quindlen)
Million little Pieces (Frey)
Stories I only tell my friends (Lowe)


Book Love: If we had hours to talk about books, below are a few I want everyone to enjoy. I hope everyone can find something to read from this list. A solid mix of favorites, fright, page turners, and authors I have been reading for decades.  (listed alphabetically)

Always at the top:
The English Patient (Ondaatje)
The Red Tent (Shreve)
The Time Traveler's Wife (Niffenegger)

Books that haunt me:
I'd know you anywhere (Lippman)
Still Missing (Chevy Stevens)
We need to talk about Kevin (Shriver)

Devoured quickly:
Goodnight June (Jio)
Helen of Pasadena (Dolan)
Love in Midair (Wright)
The Good Wife (Porter)
The Singles (Goldstein)
The Underside of Joy (Halverson)

My go-to-authors:
Lisa Genova
Emily Giffin
Elin Hilderbrand
Audrey Niffenegger (The Time Traveler's Wife, Her Fearful Symmetry) 
Anita Shreve (Resistence, The Weight of Water, The Last Time we met) - LOVE her early books
Thrity Umrigar (The Weight of Water, The Space Between Us)
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Book Review: Mad about the Boy

Why I picked it: What can I say... I read the first two and was curious.

Synopsis: With her hotly anticipated third installment, "Bridget Jones: Mad About the Boy," Fielding introduces us to a whole new enticing phase of Bridget's life set in contemporary London, including the challenges of maintaining sex appeal as the years roll by and the nightmare of drunken texting, the skinny jean, the disastrous e-mail cc, total lack of twitter followers, and TVs that need 90 buttons and three remotes to simply turn on.

Quick Take: It's with much sadness that I share my first DNF of 2014.  My first thought, while reading this novel, was 'did I enjoy the first two'? I'm 10-15 years older/wiser and found myself bored listening to so much detail that didn't move the plot forward.

I don't know any fifty year old women who nitpick/obsess about every detail. My advise to Bridget? Sign up for pinterest and start pinning motivational quotes.  (ha)

About half way through the book... I empowered myself to stop listening.

Lian Dolan's review sums up my experience nicely (from goodreads): ... The moments where we do see a real 51 year old woman who finds herself widowed and still grieving 4 years later are the best moments in the book. I wish Fielding's editor had trusted the "Bridget Jones generation", like me, to have grown up, too. We didn't need to see the Bridget of 20 years ago, so the dating- the- younger- man subplot seemed very tired and contrived. A Grown-Up Bridget for Grown-up readers would have been great. 

Rating: DNF
Source: Library (audio)
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Book Review: The life List

Why I picked it: I'm sorry to tell you that I saw this online but don't remember where.  I was looking for something light/fresh to listen to as I prepared to travel, it was a great choice for me.

Synopsis: Brett sets out to complete her old list of childhood goals, and finds that her lifelong dreams lead her down a path she never expects.

1. Go to Paris
2. Perform live, on a super big stage
3. Have a baby, maybe two
4. Fall in love

Grief-stricken, Brett can barely make sense of her mother’s decision. Some of her old hopes seem impossible. How can she possibly have a relationship with a father who died seven years ago? Other dreams (Be an awesome teacher!) would require her to reinvent her entire future. For each goal attempted, her mother has left behind a bittersweet letter, offering words of wisdom, warmth, and—just when Brett needs it—tough love.

As Brett struggles to complete her abandoned life list, one thing becomes clear: Sometimes life’s sweetest gifts can be found in the most unexpected places.

Quick Take: I loved this book. The plot moves at a quick pace, with twists along the way to keep a reader interested. Imagine falling in love and becoming a mother within twelve months, yet this is what Brett needs to do according to her mother's will.

It's a delightful novel.

Rating: 4 stars
Source: personal copy (audio)
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